<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430419259636964218</id><updated>2012-02-15T23:48:34.091-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Personal Growth</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>khanggareng</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08855078099754612776</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>10</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430419259636964218.post-8311459795163064963</id><published>2008-02-21T21:43:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-21T21:43:50.824-08:00</updated><title type='text'>How to increase personal growth through diaries</title><content type='html'>When you are looking to increase your personal growth, you will want to take a look at your life before this point.  Think about what you do to make your life special and what you can do to make it even better.  If you are someone that keeps a diary, you may want to use this as a method of finding yourself. You might want to use your diary as a way to think about what you want to do in life.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you are keeping diaries of your life, you will have something to look back on so that you know what you are doing in your life. You will want to make sure that you are checking your personal diaries so that you are able to increase your personal growth and making your life, as you want it to be.  Getting your life together is not always easy.  When you are keeping track of it better through a diary, you will have a better idea of what you want and where you want to go.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You will want to make sure that you are doing the best that you can in life.  When you are keeping track of your personal life and the goals that you have, you will want to go back and read about what you have written. You will also want to use your diaries so that you can read what you are writing about how you feel.  When you are able to see what you go through and what you have felt in the past, you will have a better idea of the things that you want to do in your life ahead of you.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also when you keep a diary, you will be able to use it as a way to let out your feelings. You can write down what you want to get out.  There are many ways that you can use your ability to write down your personal thought and feelings and reflect on them later.  You can see how special something was for you or what you want to remember later.  When you are reading the things that you have written in your diary, you will be able to use them as a guide to your life later on.  You will be able to create a better perspective in life when you are able to think about what you have done and where you want to go from here.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Writing down your personal thoughts is something that you can do to make you feel better. You can release stress by jotting down what you are feeling.  Sometimes it is hard to let others know about what your problems are in life.  You do not always want to let others know how you are feeling.  When this is the case, you will want to keep a diary and read it when you want.  You should not let others read your personal diary.  You need to make sure that you are keeping this diary hid so that others cannot get into your own personal thoughts. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Your diary is there to help you grow as a person. You will want to be someone that you can be proud of. You want to go back and use your diary as a way to see what you have had trouble with in life and what you need to change about what you are doing now.  Keeping record of the great things and the bad things is a good way to grow as a person and how to improve you and grow as a person from there.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/430419259636964218-8311459795163064963?l=personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/feeds/8311459795163064963/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=430419259636964218&amp;postID=8311459795163064963' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/8311459795163064963'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/8311459795163064963'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/2008/02/how-to-increase-personal-growth-through.html' title='How to increase personal growth through diaries'/><author><name>khanggareng</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08855078099754612776</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430419259636964218.post-73741285037909288</id><published>2008-02-21T21:42:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-21T21:42:59.327-08:00</updated><title type='text'>How to improve your spiritual growth and feel better about your self at the same time</title><content type='html'>When it comes to self esteem, you need to have a sense of right and wrong. How do you know what's right and wrong?  We have laws that tell us, we have standards that define both right and wrong, and we have religion. When it comes to religion or spiritual power you have a sense of morally right or morally wrong standards. Everyone thinks that religion is about praying to a high god, but it also is about yourself and growing. Religion allows you to find comfort and strength to do what it is that you have to do. If you can find faith in anything, you will feel better about yourself. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even if your faith is not in a God, but in yourself and your family; you can have spiritual growth without trying to find yourself in a religion. Spiritual growth is when you realize that there are things that you can control and things that you cannot. Spiritual growth is when you live for another person or spirit. If you live to serve God, you will feel better about yourself because there is power in the Bible. If you live to protect your child, you will feel better about yourself because you are sacrificing yourself for another. That is the basis of spiritual growth; living for something other than yourself. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How spiritual growth happens is something major has to happen to your life. You have to find a reason to live. You have to find something that gives you joy and that you are willing to go the distance for. Some people need a near death experience to have spiritual growth and some need things like a child to enter their life to finally get on the right path. That's how spiritual growth naturally processes, however, why wait for that. If you are non practitioner of a faith, find out why you stopped and then find out how to find yourself in faith. You need to support yourself, you need to believe in yourself, and you need to believe in something more than just yourself. Again, you need to find something to take up your devotion, not like a job, but it can be a person or it can be a spirit. The key to finding something to devote your time and energy is finding something that you would sacrifice everything for. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Religion is different for everyone, however it defines who you are and what you want out of life. It also helps you find the right path. Regardless of your religion you will put your goals and ideas into a statement that is influenced by your religion. Then when you fail at a goal, you have your faith to fall back on. Your faith is what allows you to reach for better things. Your faith is what allows you to be a better person. You find strength and support in faith, regardless of what your faith may be. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For those who do not have faith in anyone or anything, you are lost and have a lot more than just personal growth to worry about. You still have to find yourself. Once you are able to find yourself and define who you are, then you will be able to grow by setting goals to be what it is that you want to be. For those who have no faith, finding faith is crucial to your living. You will never know what it feels like to help another person or you will never know what it feels like to be supported by others. If you can find faith or spiritual growth, then you will find personal growth.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/430419259636964218-73741285037909288?l=personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/feeds/73741285037909288/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=430419259636964218&amp;postID=73741285037909288' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/73741285037909288'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/73741285037909288'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/2008/02/how-to-improve-your-spiritual-growth.html' title='How to improve your spiritual growth and feel better about your self at the same time'/><author><name>khanggareng</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08855078099754612776</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430419259636964218.post-3237783695800140129</id><published>2008-02-21T21:41:00.002-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-21T21:42:18.648-08:00</updated><title type='text'>How to improve your self-esteem</title><content type='html'>If you or others notice that you have low self esteem, you may want to take some steps to make your self esteem seem much higher. You need to recognize your strengths and help build on your weaknesses. You will have to think about how to improve your self esteem and what you really want out of life. If you make a few lists, you should be able to find several ways to increase your self esteem levels. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The first list that you will need to make is a list of your personality strengths. List everything that you are good at. You can list things like sports or other activities, or you can list things that you like about yourself. Then you need to make a list of activities that you aren't so good at or thing that you dislike about yourself. Look at the list of things that you like. Is it long?  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Does it give you some comfort?  Now look at the second list. You will notice that most of the list is extremely negative and may be some of the things out of your control. For those things that you can't change or control you should change them to sound positive and put them on your list of things that you like. For example, maybe you dislike a co-worker. On the positive side, name someone that you work with that you do like.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once you have a list of things that you can change you need to think about placing goals so that you can change those things. You will want to keep your strengths in mind when you are setting your goals. You will want to be able to use your strengths to help you achieve your goals You should also try to take the negative things and put them in a positive light. You don't want to bring yourself down, but to look at what you are capable of achieving and with some commitment you should be able to change the circumstances to be more pleasing. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also, to raise your self esteem, you need to keep yourself from people who love to bring you down and say hurtful things to you. You may want to keep away from these people or limit yourself interacting with those types of people. Once you are able to take your negativity away from your environment, the positive will come out and you should be able to reach all your goals and with self esteem. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another thing is to accept your defeats. Sometimes you will set a goal, but you won't be able to achieve the goal. If you don't achieve the goal, you need to think about the reasons why you failed. Maybe you really just didn't want it, but others wanted it for you. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's okay to fail if your heart wasn't in it. There are times that you are going to think about all the hard work that you put in it and how much you really wanted it, but the truth may be that someone else wanted it more. That's okay because you tried your best and if you fail doing your best, it's better than allowing the defeat. You can grow from the situation and next time you will have more heart than anyone. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Take steps to raise your self-esteem and feel better about who you are. Lastly, you need to allow yourself to be confident. When you show others that you are confident you can be intimidating to some, because confident people usually reach their goals. However, again you need to find a balance. You don't want to seem cocky, but you want to seem qualified and eager.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/430419259636964218-3237783695800140129?l=personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/feeds/3237783695800140129/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=430419259636964218&amp;postID=3237783695800140129' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/3237783695800140129'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/3237783695800140129'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/2008/02/how-to-improve-your-self-esteem.html' title='How to improve your self-esteem'/><author><name>khanggareng</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08855078099754612776</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430419259636964218.post-311867922936747910</id><published>2008-02-21T21:41:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-21T21:41:43.083-08:00</updated><title type='text'>How to improve your personal growth and feel good about yourself</title><content type='html'>When it comes to your personal growth, you will find that your self esteem levels are connected. You have to have a good level of self-esteem for you to grow personally, but you sometimes also need to go through a lot to gain self esteem. There are so many things that you can do to make yourself feel good, however, you need to find positive ways to reinforce personal growth. You will need to some soul searching to find what it is that makes you happy. You will also need to set yourself some short and long term goals for you to grow and feel better about yourself. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When it comes to setting goals you need to really think about who you are, where you are going, and what you want to be. Once you have defined yourself you can begin to set goals. You should set little goals and have at least one a month so that you are continuously striving for something. The key to good goal setting is knowing that you can achieve them and having a game plan. If you set unrealistic goals for yourself, you will never grow or feel better about yourself. You need to think about what you really want. Maybe you need materialistic objects to feel better about yourself; however, it could be simply things like moving on and standing independently when it comes to finances. When it comes to materialistic objects, you need to know that no amount of money in the world can make you have self esteem, but it is the achievement that you have to get that money. Like you can go for a promotion, knowing that you worked hard, even though there is the money increase, it's really about the promotion. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When it comes to your self esteem levels you will find that you will see yourself definitely when you start reaching your goals. However, even if you take a shot and you miss, you should never let your self esteem be affected. You grow from your mistakes and the next time you aim at a goal, you will know exactly what it takes to achieve it. You will be able to grow from the negativity by making it positive. Also, at one point, you are going to need to realize that this is who you are and that's okay. You need to be satisfied with who you are, but always reach for more so that you can grow. People grow from their own mistakes, as well as, other people's mistakes. You need to listen to those around you and take risks, but always be aware of how you feel about yourself. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The worst thing that you can do to feel better about yourself is to let things get to you. You need to stop hiding your feelings by overspending when you go shopping or by eating, or whatever you do to fix your emotions quickly. Nothing temporary can every make you feel truly better. It may hide your feelings for a little bit, but it can not solve anything. You will need a support system. When you are feeling bad about yourself you need to go talk to someone who is going to be encouraging. Eventually you will be able to comfort yourself and that is what growth is truly about. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Always try to keep the positive things in your life and keep plenty of people who love and care about you around. They are your support system and sometimes everyone needs someone to lean on every now and then. With facing your issues and setting goals you can grow and learn. You will begin to feel better about yourself when you see how far you truly have come.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/430419259636964218-311867922936747910?l=personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/feeds/311867922936747910/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=430419259636964218&amp;postID=311867922936747910' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/311867922936747910'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/311867922936747910'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/2008/02/how-to-improve-your-personal-growth-and.html' title='How to improve your personal growth and feel good about yourself'/><author><name>khanggareng</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08855078099754612776</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430419259636964218.post-3276079449777267208</id><published>2008-02-21T21:40:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-21T21:41:09.598-08:00</updated><title type='text'>How to help others, while improving your personal fulfillment</title><content type='html'>Have you ever noticed that by doing a good deed that you feel personal fulfilled?  That's why a lot of people will do some local charity or even give to goodwill. They feel personal fulfillment by helping someone who is less fornatate than themselves. Sometimes you will notice that it is hard to express your own feelings, but you can seek out someone and help them with a small problem, and then all of a sudden you find comfort. This is because you connected with someone and you felt less alone. If you are able to help someone, you will feel a lot better about yourself because of the happiness of another. Even the most selfish person can find personal fulfillment from helping others. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When it comes to helping out, you don't have to do much. All you have to do is come around give them some attention. If you notice someone who is lonely you could go and sit with them. If you work with someone who eats lunch all by themselves, if you go and sit down by them, they will begin to be more social after awhile and they will owe it all to you. A person's happiness comes from attention. There are too many people out in the world who feels like everyone has forgotten them or has ignored them. Even if you say hi to someone passing by, they will begin to feel better about themselves, like someone cares. If you can make someone feel better about themselves then you will feel better about themselves. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then there are other ways to help a person. It not only takes your time and energy, but also materials and money. You can always go to a local soup kitchen and feed the homeless. You can go read a bedtime story to an orphan. You can also put yourself out by donating things that you have become accustom to. Things like clothes, food, money, can easily be given to some of your local charities. You are sacrificing things to help another and you can feel good about not being so selfish. You can actually grow by giving some of the things that you take for granted to the homeless or an orphanage. Then there are people who devote their entire lives to helping others. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are people who take civil service jobs to help out others. You can become a firefighter, police officer, a social worker, or even an aid at the local shelter. You can take a lot of positions where you help someone. They say that if you are a social worker, if you ever touch one child, if you ever help just one child, you have succeed in life. Social jobs are not easy and can sometimes be very dangerous, but they are also the most fulfilling jobs that one can ever have. If you find ways to incorporate helping people into your career, you will become very content with your life and with yourself. That's why many people become doctors, lawyers, nurses, and so one because they are providing not just a service, but they have a job where they can help people. By helping people you become fulfilled. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are able to identify with someone, you will find that you can also feel fulfilled. Basically, if you help someone who was once in a situation similar to yours, you will feel better about yourself because you righted a wrong. You took a negative situation and made it positive; it's especially fulfilling if no one took the time to help you out. You are able to right the wrong of someone else and make someone else feel better.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/430419259636964218-3276079449777267208?l=personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/feeds/3276079449777267208/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=430419259636964218&amp;postID=3276079449777267208' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/3276079449777267208'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/3276079449777267208'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/2008/02/how-to-help-others-while-improving-your.html' title='How to help others, while improving your personal fulfillment'/><author><name>khanggareng</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08855078099754612776</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430419259636964218.post-3309089129107579052</id><published>2008-02-21T21:38:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-21T21:38:49.421-08:00</updated><title type='text'>How to have personal fulfillment and a fulltime job</title><content type='html'>It can be hard when you have to work a full time job to make the ends meet. You may not want to be working all the time, but in today's society, we have to make sacrifices so that we can have a better life for our family and ourselves. We need to make the necessary changes in our life so that we can be happy and thrive with the financial situation that we have and be thankful that we have what we do.  However, it can get depressing at times and we have to find a way to live a fulfilled life and be happy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are many things in this world that can bring us down. We have to make sure that we have all the things that we need in life so that we can be happy and satisfied when we can. We want to make sure that we are living each day to the fullest potential and you should never take anything for granted. It is not easy to do, but we do have to try so that we can make the most of each moment that we have.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you have to work all the time, you may find that you are regretting some of your choices. You may find that you want to spend more time with your family and friends. It can be hard when you have to leave them behind all the time especially if you have children that you are missing important things with.  You want to make sure that you are doing your best to make all the important events with your children that you can.  You will find that they grow up fast and you do not want to miss anything that you cannot get back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You will want to take the time off where your family and children are concerned. You will see that life passes by very fast and if you do not stop to enjoy the greatest things in your life; you will sadly regret them later on. You will wan to try and make the most of your life and by spending quality time with those that you love, you will be better fulfilled and a happier person for it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On your days off from work, you will probably have to do some chores and other things that you have to do. However, you should also fit in the things that you want to do. You may have hobbies and fun things that you really enjoy. If you are not doing them as often as you would like, you should take out time and do them. You may have to just forget the boring things like chores and housework and go out there and enjoy your life.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are always working and not having any fun, you will find that it will be a mistake on your part. You will not be happy and you may even find that you end up a little depressed. It can be difficult to go through life and not do anything that makes you happy. It is so very important to find something that you can do in your spare time that will fulfill you and give you the joy that you deserve. This will break you away from the tension and the stress that you may have if you are working a full time job.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Every now and then you have to break lose. You should not work all the time and not have anything to show for it. If you really want to have something, you should find a way to go out and get it. You will want to make sure that you are putting all your resources together to really get something that you have always wanted.  This will make you happier and give you the feeling that you are working for more than just paying bills. You will feel that you have accomplished something and you will be fulfilling something that you want in your life.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/430419259636964218-3309089129107579052?l=personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/feeds/3309089129107579052/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=430419259636964218&amp;postID=3309089129107579052' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/3309089129107579052'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/3309089129107579052'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/2008/02/how-to-have-personal-fulfillment-and.html' title='How to have personal fulfillment and a fulltime job'/><author><name>khanggareng</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08855078099754612776</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430419259636964218.post-6482033076875596817</id><published>2008-02-21T18:01:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-21T18:02:24.133-08:00</updated><title type='text'>How to find personal growth with a family</title><content type='html'>There are plenty of ways that people find personal growth with a family and they also find out a lot about themselves by having a family. When it comes to personal growth, you have to recognize a change in yourself. Sometimes people will grow from having a family and sometimes they won't change at all. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you begin a family expectedly, you know that there are going to be changes, but you won't realize just what will change and how; you'll have some expected and unexpected change. When you have a family all of a sudden without planning it, you have more personal growth and it comes quickly. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are planning a family addition, you have to think about who you are and what you want to be. If you are a type of person who likes to stay out at all hours and party, you may not be ready for the change or the responsibility. When you are giving something like responsibility you change so that you can manage the situation. Sometimes you may feel like you are hitting a wall and you may become overwhelmed, but calm down and let your emotions go. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once you are able to let go of your emotions, you will know exactly what is expected from you and you will learn and grow. When you have a family, you prepare yourself by thinking about all the good times and rough times that you had with your parents and then you may look back and want to change. How would you feel if your child did the same things that you did?  How would you like to be treated like you treated your parents?  At that moment, you may become ashamed of who you once where and you may end up finding yourself growing up and settling down. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For those who have an expected family, you grow because you realize that your mother or father was right. You realize that all the things that they did to stop you from having "fun" was just their way of protecting you. As you carry the baby or watch it grow you will find growth by seeking out your parent's support, as well as, carry the knowledge of what a person shouldn't do. With all your life experiences, you learn something. When you have something major like a child on the way, you should reflect and ask yourself "what is the lesson". Then take your experiences and allow yourself to grow and get on a path that will allow you to support and take care of yourself and the baby.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do you know that most of your growing up will actually be once the baby comes?  That's because no one really sees how much commitment goes with having a baby. Then you will also grow and become someone who you never dreamed of being with the support of your family. Your family will help and support you to become a great parent and provider. There are plenty of lessons that you will learn from creating a family, but you can also grow with the help of your parents and family. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Through out your childhood your parents were always there to guide. They tried to show you the right way to go about life and the wrong way to go about life. Every time you reflect on your actions and compare what the consequences were, you grow. You may have to fall completely on your face to grow up and become a responsible and well adjusted citizen, or you may have to get in a little bit of trouble to see the light. However, everything that we do has consequences and a lesson.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/430419259636964218-6482033076875596817?l=personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/feeds/6482033076875596817/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=430419259636964218&amp;postID=6482033076875596817' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/6482033076875596817'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/6482033076875596817'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/2008/02/how-to-find-personal-growth-with-family.html' title='How to find personal growth with a family'/><author><name>khanggareng</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08855078099754612776</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430419259636964218.post-7657434763029396698</id><published>2008-02-21T18:00:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-21T18:00:45.271-08:00</updated><title type='text'>How to find personal growth through your children</title><content type='html'>We all have to find a way to grow as a person.  This is something that is not always easy.  You may have to find a resource that will make it easier for you to find out who you are and what you want to be in life.  This is going to take a little bit of time, but there are things that can help us find out whom we are and what we want to do in life.  We can actually grow through our children. Children can help us find out who we want to become and what we want from life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are things that we are not sure of in life. However, when we have the right help, we can find out anything that we want.  We can grow into the people that we are destined to become as we take on the challenge of helping our children to become great adults.  We will see the way that life can affect what and us we need to do in order to be a better person and live, as we want to.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As much as we teach our children, they will actually teach us great lessons as well. They will show us things that we never knew before.  We will see life through their eyes if we just allow ourselves to think about it.  We can walk in their shoes and see what life has for us out there.  All we need to do is keep an open mind and let our children teach us what they know. This is a great way for our personal growth be discovered and move on to bigger and better things in life.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is nothing better in life than raising great children.  We want to do the best that we can so that we can feel proud about who they have become.  We want to try and instill the best possible manners that we can in our children. This will make them become the great adults that we know they can become.  When we see them growing each day and doing the things that make them happy as well as doing great things for others, this will make us feel good inside.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We can also enjoy the great life that they are living.  We can walk through life with them and make each moment last.  We want to make memories with our children so that we can use them to reflect on later in life.  This is something that will comfort us later on and make us happy. We want to be able to remember all the great things that we experienced with our children and make sure that we use these moments to help make us grow as people.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The best thing that you can do for yourself and your child is to communicate with them. You want to be able to talk to them about anything.  The more comfortable that they feel with you means that the more they will open up to you about anything. You can have open and honest relationships that will eventually help both of you grow. You can become stronger and happier just by having each other to lean on.  This is something that everyone needs in their life so that they can become better adults and have the life that they know they deserve.  You can grow into the person that you want as well as watching them become the person they want to become too.  You can both grow together and fulfill your dreams and goals as life goes on.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/430419259636964218-7657434763029396698?l=personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/feeds/7657434763029396698/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=430419259636964218&amp;postID=7657434763029396698' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/7657434763029396698'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/7657434763029396698'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/2008/02/how-to-find-personal-growth-through_21.html' title='How to find personal growth through your children'/><author><name>khanggareng</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08855078099754612776</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430419259636964218.post-6367623212097310362</id><published>2008-02-21T17:59:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-21T17:59:38.590-08:00</updated><title type='text'>How to find personal growth through your career</title><content type='html'>The way that we do our job is very important to us. We wan to do it well so that we are able to make the most of our life and do what we need to in order to be great. We want to be proud of who we are and what we are doing.  There are so many great things that we can accomplish through our life and doing something that we love is very important.  You want to be able to make the most of your life and grow from the career choices that you make.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Having a great career is something that we all want. Not everyone gets to do for a living what they want.  They may have to settle for a job that they are not so happy with because it pays the bills and gets them through life.  This is not what we want in life, but in some cases, it is what we have to accept. It is not always easy to feel good about who we are when this is the case.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are looking for some type of personal growth through your career, you will want to make sure that you are able to be happy with what you are doing. You will want to make sure that you are giving your best so that you are able to achieve the goals and the dreams that you have always wanted.  You want to be proud of who you are and what you are doing.  Going to work each day with a smile is something that will make you grow into the person that you want to become. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you are looking for something that will make you happy, you should turn to your career. You will want to make sure that you are doing something that makes you feel that you are doing what you were meant to do.  You will want to do something with your life that is meaningful and exciting. This is the only way that you will be able to get to where you want to be with your own personal self.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are many things that you can do to grow as a person through your career.  You can learn how to be more professional and how to deal with the things in life that are sometimes not always easy. You will find that when you are able to things that make you feel good, you will be able to go home with a positive feeling. That is the most important thing that you can do for yourself. You want to be positive and keep the negative feelings out.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you are looking for personal growth, you should be able to use your career for just that. You will need to be able to deal with things even if they do not go your way and how you expect them to. You want to be prepared for the bad and take the good with dignity. This is something that you will learn when you are doing the job in life that you love the most. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be great and when you have the drive and the determination in life to do it, you will get there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Live out your dreams and do not accept anything but the best. You want to be someone that you can feel good about and you want the respect that you deserve from others. This is the only way that you will be able to grow in the way that you want to and move on to all your dreams and goals that you want. You can feel great about who you are and what you are doing when you have the will to do just that and so much more.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/430419259636964218-6367623212097310362?l=personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/feeds/6367623212097310362/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=430419259636964218&amp;postID=6367623212097310362' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/6367623212097310362'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/6367623212097310362'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/2008/02/how-to-find-personal-growth-through.html' title='How to find personal growth through your career'/><author><name>khanggareng</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08855078099754612776</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-430419259636964218.post-1123536938980607740</id><published>2008-02-21T17:57:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-21T17:58:34.186-08:00</updated><title type='text'>How to find personal growth, as you find new friends</title><content type='html'>When you are looking to meet new people and make more friends you are actually expanding your own personal growth. This is something that many people should do for themselves. This will give them added confidence and more structure in their life as well. It is something that a person can grow from and use as a learning experience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The more friends that we have in life will mean that the more fun and excitement we have as well. Then it is better to have too many friends than not enough. If you are looking to have the feeling that you belong and that you are important, you will see that you can get this from your friends.  When you are sure that you have the support that you need, you will have a better time in life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Growing as a person is something that we learn to do everyday. There are many people that want to meet new people so that they can feel good about themselves. They want to make sure that they have wide variety of people that they can depend on when they need them. This will make you feel good and give you the strength that you are looking for so that you can have a normal and happy life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can meet friends just about anywhere. If you work, you may have already made lasting friendships there. This is a great way for you to meet new people as they are employed and you will have friends that you will have for a lifetime. You will also find that the more activities that you are in means that you will meet more and more people. You will see that you can make a lot of great friendships when you belong to clubs or other social organizations.  These are people that will help your personal growth.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finding new friends does not mean that you have to give up the old ones. There is no reason why you cannot combine the old and the new friends together. In fact, this is a great way for you to have a good experience in your personal growth. You can have friends for different reasons and you will want to share as much time with them as you can. This will help you to keep your personal ties with the special bonding friends and you will also be able to keep in touch with your everyday social friendships as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Making friends is part of life. Sometimes you will make friends that you will not have for very long and other times, you will make friends that you have for a lifetime.  No matter how long you keep them in your life, you are still giving yourself a great way of personal growth. This is something that you can do for yourself to make it easier to go through life and get the things that you want.  Each friend can offer you something new and exciting to bring to your life. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You will defiantly experience some hard times when you have friends. You will go through good times and bad. However, the best thing that you can do is make sure that you have the ability to make sure that you are using each friendship as a personal growth experience so that you can grow as a person and have a better life ahead of you.   Friends are a part of your growing experience and everyone will want to make a least one really good friend in their life.  Having friends makes you stronger and happier and will give you the important things in life.  &lt;br /&gt;It is important to take time out of your busy life to make friends so that you can get the support and love that you need in your life.  Friends will make you grow and give you the personal growth that you need to have a happy life.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/430419259636964218-1123536938980607740?l=personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/feeds/1123536938980607740/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=430419259636964218&amp;postID=1123536938980607740' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/1123536938980607740'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/430419259636964218/posts/default/1123536938980607740'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://personalgrowthblog.blogspot.com/2008/02/how-to-find-personal-growth-as-you-find.html' title='How to find personal growth, as you find new friends'/><author><name>khanggareng</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08855078099754612776</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
